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Some people live and die without ever being seen or touched. Some have no names and no graves.
While many in society speak and act as if these persons never existed, families of the babies lost in miscarriage still mourn.
Miscarriage is such a part of life, but it’s so secret and hidden.
Given the silence, discomfort and even nonchalance that many express when it comes to miscarriage, we don’t quite know how we feel about the unborn child.”
The baby isn’t viewed as a person to many
Nevertheless, with each miscarriage, “it’s a very real death
What is miscarriage?
According to the National Institutes of Health, miscarriage is “the loss of pregnancy from natural causes before the 20th week of pregnancy.” Another term used by the medical profession for miscarriage is “spontaneous abortion.” By contrast, in an “induced” abortion, an unborn child is purposely destroyed.
Most miscarriages occur due to genetic difficulties in the unborn child.
In March 2009 one of my best friends lost her baby,she was so sad because she waited for to become a mother .few days after her birthday when she turned to 30 ,she was so happy to become pregnant with the guy she loves so much.
But that day she sent me very strange message.(Alain send me all the prayers you can and all the blessings coz i need them all)
She miscarriage her baby… it was the most terrible day in her life.
I want to tell her that you´ll be a wonderful mother my friend.
your pain is so real like your poetry
The color of your sadness is so clear like the color of your dreams
I can see throughout your sadness and what im seeing is that springtime .
your springtime is soon here and your dreams will become true
Alain Safa
Post it on your Facebook account or mail it to your friends..
Tags: صحة, مجتمع // 7 Comments »
C’est tres penible chez la maman de perdre un bebe surtout si cela est accompagne d’un sentiment de culpabilite et rien ne peut effacer cette douloureuse experience de sa memoire!
Dans de nombreux cas,la glande thyroide en est la cause quand ses secretions en toxines sont elevees.Heureusement il existe des medicaments qui peuvent regler ce taux.
I have used the image on a blogpost of mine on my own miscarriage, would that be ok? With crediting the source of course.
If this is not ok, I’ll remove it.
merci, Steffi
Ir is ok Steffi. Im sorry for ur miscarriage and I hope you´ll recover it .
Realy a wonderful subject !!!!! always you surprise me….. and I like your feeling in each word
No one can know the real feel of a female miscarriage her baby !!!! it’s difficult to say or write !!!! but simply she lose a piece of her , I wish God helps each mother in this situation
thanks for sharing this story.Miscarriage is definitely painful for the expecting mother!
allow me to highlight a point here..Miscarriage is talked about in our society only when the women is married and those women get the support they need and deserve from their partners, families and friends which eases their pain.
but can you imagine the pain and trauma of single women who undergo abortion in secret not because they dont want to be mother but to avoid the harsh judgmental society and they can only share this secret with one or two friends..this is a traumatizing event for many and sometimes can be harmful for their health if they get inadequate health care.
Thanks Dear Monza for your very appreciated words about the single woman who undergo abortion.
I agree with you that the society ´s judgment can add more pain and depression to her already dificult situation.
We need to understand and support all kind of women who´s suffering because of the miscarriage.