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Feelings..have particular definitions, but ther sure don’t mean the same for everyone.

Each deals with them as if they were his and only his…Most of the time, when we’re asked if we’ve been hurt, we find it very easy to talk about.

A topic that blinks the eyes of those hearing it…and we go on talking what happened and why…yes it may have hurt alot..but does talking about it make it easier inside?…may be…may not…What’s the big deal of it all?…some may ask…it’s not a big deal unless you’re there..and you choose to make of it a big deal ONLY..(as in everything else you chose the pessimistic way)…but that’s not our real issue right now…

It’s about hurting others…Very few people say that they have hurt someone…even if they did, it would take a million please( of those eager to know…) for them to say how, or to confess their being wrong…Noone wants to be the guilty one…Everyone wants to be the VICTIM…who’s to be later the GUILTY…and the chain continues…BUT that’s not the case for everyone…

Many people, and these are to be called PEOPLE INDEED…hurt others, but say….It’s not wrong to hurt, when things go wrong, and you haven’t done it on purpose…It’s just how things turned out to be..Indeed you had a hand in the turning point..climax…in everything that went wrong..you were in control…you ARE in control…BUT there had to be a new level..undesired by both parties….it wasn’t an end( Being someone who doesn’t believe in endings…new states or level always appear..)….only a parting …distant communication…as it seemed…Since nothing is like it seems, it was a closer lullaby…but her ears weren’t focused on that ONLY…the lullaby wasn’t what was supposed to be…didn’t reach her now hollow being…she got hurt….

He was the hurter…he’d always confessed that…and it’s no big sin…not deadly…not even morally wrong…emotionally, only a misinterpretation from one side…misunderstanding one might call…soo is hurting others a shame?…is it meant to be?…could be changed later?…should always have a victim and a guilty one?….

It depends whether hurting was the only choice..or a result of a choice…and it’s not a shame unless one whishes to call it so..Labeling is just labeling..it’s never the real thing…It’s not meant to be if it wasn’t meant to be…it there was another more efficient solution..it could have been overcome..But it’s always about the reference it’s done to..how he/she sees it….Ofcourse it could be changed later…but in what sense?…not by the means of undoing it…but by changing it’s present result…creating a more satisfying state…There doesn’t HAVE to be two parties…it’s not about will- power, neither is HAVING TO BE a real thing..nothing HAS TO BE..We choose what has or hasn’t to be…and guilty and victim do not exist except for people who choose to be ones…There’d be no domination, no obligations of HAVE OR HAS…when you choose and you’re given choices….

i.e:
words never express as is there..nothing does..Thanks for them..play the role of partially revealing the inside….As for the point of them…you just read…take what you want from this small piece of infinite thoughts…give it what you want of thoughts and reactions….

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